Goddess, your Yoni is the portal to the Divine. She deserves to be worshipped and revered with the most intentional, loving, conscious touch.
I bow down to the women who choose to dive into the deep end and explore the very depths of their soul, their edges and desires: in the lightness and the darkness.
In this article, we will take a deep exploration into the reasons why a person with a Yoni should receive Yoni Massage Therapy.
In short, Yoni Massage Therapy has a range of compelling benefits, including:
the release of somatic trauma and muscular tension,
clearing energetic blockages,
boosting sexual empowerment,
aligning with optimal health and wellness,
nourishing your libido,
and connecting with your body, sensuality and pleasure.
First, let's unpack what Yoni Massage Therapy is and what the experience entails:
What is Yoni Massage?
'Yoni' is a Sanskrit word for the female sexual organs that translates to 'sacred space'.
Yoni Massage Therapy is a somatic sexological bodywork modality that takes a holistic approach to female sexual health, exploring the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual Self.
This ancient tantric practice aims to help you explore what it feels like to be in your body and gain a better understanding of your energy and pleasure.
Practised for centuries in India and China, Tantric bodywork has its roots in Hinduism, Buddhism and Taoism. In Tantric temples, this unique, sacred healing modality was utilised to release trauma and stuck emotional energy, bringing about deep healing and women's empowerment.
This experience also contains elements of breathwork, bioenergetics and yoga, bringing balance to the polarity between Shiva and Shakti energy, or yin and yang, within each aspect of the Self.
What to expect:
The three-hour ceremony entails a full body massage including the erogenous zones, breasts and both external and internal genital therapeutic bodywork, with adequate before and aftercare.
We begin the ritual with a consultation to discuss your journey as a woman, your intentions, expectations, desires and boundaries. We then follow with an undressing ceremony before moving into the bodywork.
After the Yoni Massage Therapy, you will have the opportunity to shower before concluding with integration practices, including a redressing ceremony, as I hold space for you to speak on your experience.
Within two weeks after your Yoni Massage Therapy ceremony, we will check in with a 30-minute debrief call to discuss anything that may have come up for you and work through further integration practices to consolidate your healing process.
This bodywork is sexual and sensual; however, Therapeutic Yoni Massage is NOT sex or foreplay. Although orgasm is possible, this is not the goal. For most women, this experience is emotional, rather than sexual, in nature.
There are no goals, pressures or performances.
This work is about feeling comfortable in your skin and tuning into your body. We explore a range of touch, strokes and sensations to awaken your senses and neural networks, bringing your whole body to life, expanding your capacity to feel, and cultivate sexual, life-force energy.
Yoni Massage Therapy is a practice of complete trust and surrender. With constant communication, you are held in a safe, supportive environment to express your desires and boundaries and have them honoured.
Throughout the entire ceremony, your active disposition, full-body YES and verbal consent is respected and required.
Why receive Yoni Massage Therapy?
Yoni Massage Therapy has a range of compelling benefits, including:
the release of somatic trauma and muscular tension,
clearing energetic blockages,
boosting sexual empowerment,
aligning with optimal health and wellness,
nourishing your libido,
and connecting with your body, sensuality and pleasure.
Let's explore even deeper...
Women can hold a magnitude of somatic trauma in their yoni and womb space, particularly at their cervix; the body keeps the score.
This trauma can range from sexual abuse, societal conditioning, physical injury, scarring, illness, past sexual experiences, having your boundaries disrespected, saying yes when you wanted to say no, somatic and cellular memories, and belief systems inherited via our ancestral DNA.
Pain, muscular tension and numbness within your Yoni can represent somatic trauma and emotional and energetic blockages. Therapeutic Yoni Massage helps to release somatic trauma, muscle tension, spasm and stagnation, painful pressure points, unwanted tightness, an overactive pelvic floor, irritable friction, and stuck energy; physically and emotionally.
In exploring conscious penetration and teaching the body to enjoy prolonged penetration, you may also rebuild trust with your body so that your Yoni does not spasm with fear as an armoured trauma response.
This tantric bodywork also reintroduces blood and oxygen flow to places of pain and numbness, activating neural networks, increasing natural lubrication, transmuting pain into pleasure and improving and increasing energy flow throughout your body.
As you relax, your body releases hormones associated with feelings of trust, love and bonding, creating new, healing somatic experiences in place of trauma and blockages to your erotic power. The deep state of relaxation brings balance to your inner polarity, especially if you spend more time in your masculine, yang or 'go' and usually struggle to receive and surrender to your feminine, yin, or 'flow'.
Your body also produces endorphins, contributing to a feeling of bliss. Through deep breathwork, prana energy moves through your energy centres and opens your heart, potentially inducing a natural state of ecstasy and oneness with the Divine, within yourself and everything around you.
This flow of the Divine is remarkably potent and pure; it may stimulate altered states of consciousness and pleasure that can awaken intense emotion and enable strong release. This deep state of internal awareness and connection with Source can also bring clarity around blockages, trauma, fears, hidden patterns, shadows, beliefs and past life contracts. This clarity may look like sudden epiphanies or visions. As you act as a clear channel for the Divine, you may experience waves, vibrations, pulses, or a deep, orgasmic implosion of release.
Yoni Massage Therapy is a powerful tool to increase your orgasmic potential. As we map your Yoni's anatomy, such as your clitoris, G-spot, A-spot, P-spot and cervix, you may awaken to heightened sensitivity and pleasure, allowing the exploration of implosive orgasmic states beyond explosive clitoral orgasms, as well as cervical orgasm and squirting.
Your whole body can come alive to become more erogenous, sensitive and orgasmic - increasing your awareness of your body in places you may have never noticed before. In this deep state of surrender, you will learn to drop into your body and out of your mind; instead of tensing up with control, learn to surrender into the depths of your pleasure. Your orgasmic states may deepen, lengthen and expand.
Exploring full-body relaxation and the activation of your sexual, life-force energy through conscious, loving touch without any expectation of performance or goals nourishes your libido. In rebuilding trust between your Yoni and physical touch, your sexual libido raises, and your body opens to crave intimate touch. In Therapeutic Yoni Massage that does not result in orgasm, the sexual vibration within your body and heart maintains at a simmering aroused state of being.
An important point to note here is the inextricable link between your sexuality and your physical, mental and spiritual health. When you deeply connect to your Yoni, and sexual, life-force energy, your potential for health and wellness is exponential. On the contrary, when you suppress or ignore your innate sexual potency, you are hindering your potential for optimal health and wellness beyond measure.
Yoni Massage Therapy is a powerful tool to align yourself with a healthful life experience and release physical manifestations that no longer serve you, such as chronic yoni pain, menstrual cramps, irregular periods or unwanted, excess weight.
Personal sexual empowerment is a central theme embedded within Therapeutic Yoni Massage. The experience may help in releasing body shame and learning to unconditionally love your body as it is, not as you wish it were. Yoni Massage can help you to understand how you desire and deserve to be loved, worshipped and touched, no longer wasting your time with energy that does not match your desires.
A sexually open and orgasmic woman is strong in her boundaries and empowered in her desire.
In exploring your body and finding what gives you pleasure, you can also share this information with a partner. It can also be exceptionally sexually empowering to learn to enjoy pleasure and orgasm without the use of vibrators or sex toys.
Other than releasing trauma and blockages, increasing orgasmic potential, sexual empowerment and nourishing your libido, Yoni Massage is a tool to relax and de-stress, increase your vitality and creativity, and to develop a deeper connection with your body and your pleasure.
Many women struggle to realise the sheer importance of connecting with their Yoni until they reach a state of imbalance. Imbalance can look like PCOS, endometriosis, vulvodynia, recurrent UTIs, etc.
If us women can cultivate a healthy relationship with our Yoni and sexuality, I believe we will be able to find a healthy equilibrium; physically, mentally and spiritually, and avoid more extensive health issues from arising in the future.
As a Yoni Massage Therapist, I am passionate about guiding women back to their source of healing, power and erotic innocence, and along their path of sexual awakening.
Strength, power, radiance, creativity and vitality permeate a woman who is awakened to her sexuality and is well versed in harnessing her sexual potency. She is the embodiment of youth, the beauty of life and is a magnet for attracting her desires. Held within her Yoni is the key to discovering this empowerment; the gateway to a woman's Fire of Life.
The Tantric tradition illustrates the admiration for a woman's power to initiate and awaken others to their medicine; their source of healing and the magic they have to share with the world.
The Yoni is honoured and worshipped as a place of healing and the residence of the Goddess. Women are the embodiment of sensuality; the Divine feminine, who emits sexual potency, power and aliveness.
Who should receive Yoni Massage?
I wholeheartedly believe that every person with a Yoni should have the pleasure of experiencing Yoni Massage Therapy in their lifetime.
Choosing to receive and attune to this potent medicine has the potential to be one of the most life-altering, healing and transformational experiences of your life so far.
Women who are already well versed on their journey of sexual awakening and healing can also find immense benefit in receiving Yoni Massage Therapy.
When you receive Yoni Massage with a qualified practitioner as a regular self-care ritual and a tool for evolving your sexual health and ongoing self-discovery, your Yoni naturally feels more open, alive, receptive and sensual.
It is safe to receive Therapeutic Yoni Massage during the second and third trimesters of pregnancy, provided care is taken around the cervix. If you are menstruating, this can be a powerful time to receive Yoni Massage Therapy if you are comfortable.
The only contraindications to Yoni Massage Therapy are active STIs or STDs, the first trimester of pregnancy, or if you do not feel comfortable in receiving this therapy. If you think the latter, I encourage you to lean into this vulnerability. What emotion comes up for you when considering receiving Yoni Massage Therapy? How does this emotion feel in your body? Notice where you might be carrying physical tension, heaviness or pain. Is this resistance coming from within you, or the preconceived judgment, prejudice, shame or beliefs imposed on you from external sources?
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